Christmas 2013

It’s almost eight o’clock on Christmas Eve morning and I’ve just returned from Dulles airport and dropping LFG and her mom off for their flight to Florida. This was my year to have LFG for the Christmas break but being the accommodating piñata guy that I am, I relented and sent my baby to Florida for fun and frolic versus Florence where it will be a bit more of a vigil. Shut up.

So LFG and I had our Christmas present fun last night…And while the “still believes in Santa” excitement is long gone, the fun and fellowship with a young adult daughter is a new kind of bliss. It is. And luckily everything that I was directed to procure for our gal was available online and in the correct sizes and colors so my gift gathering was easy. There was no ambiguity regarding what my young’un wanted. Including this calf-foot-leg stretcher thang that dancers use to accomplish the aforementioned. And my gal has turned into a serious dancer so she needs seriously damn expensive contraptions like this one. Alas.

Vans tennis shoes? Yep. These things were popular in the late 70’s, no? And hers had to be this particular color and in the low-profile, non-clunky version seen here. Precision in preference. I have no freakin’ clue where this proclivity comes from. Shut…

A young girl’s grooming and beauty book. I read the reviews on it and it’s solid. None of this “let’s focus on what’s wrong with your body and make you yearn to be something you aren’t” caca here. Cosmopolitan magazine has a rapier focus on making women feel inadequate and yearning for more-different-better. We’re trying to avoid that over here. With one exception…

LFG wanted better-different Hunter boots. Plus, her foot is still growing and her purple Hunters from two Christmases ago are a bit snug. And yes, she got more of those inserts to go in them. These are cable knit topped. Yep.

But the big difference is the fat racing stripe on the back. This my friends is a game changer. It's all about fuzzy nuance and this is after all...my daughter. Bam!

So on to my goods. LFG took special delight in watching me unwrap my James and the Giant Peach DVD. She and I read and re-read Dahl’s book a zillion times when she was little. It’s one of our favorites and we even talked about writing a sequel together.

J. McLaughlin socks, a Barnes and Noble gift card and a cool pocket square. I’ll wear the socks and square if for no other reason than my daughter picked them out.

The best J. Mc. gift might indeed be the wool foulard scarf. I can’t describe the texture adequately but it’s kinda spongy. I’m going back after Christmas to see what other versions they might have of it and if they’re on sale, I might snag another one. Yes, it's that fuzzy.

But the epic gift that I of course arranged procurement was this set of little lead soldiers...Heyde Pensioners. This almost one hundred year old set of pot-bellied caricature soldiers is rare to the point of non-existence. I’d never seen them in situ before…having only gandered photos from an auction two years ago where a boxed set of these went for crazy money. LFG Dad was able to snag these for a considerably lower price. 

But not that much lower. I can rationalize anything. Shut up.

Christmas Morning

I began this story yesterday morning but had to hit the road before I finished it. I’m now home with my mom—where I should be and it’s humbling and instructive to once again be in her service. We had a nice Christmas Eve visit and today my brother will do the Christmas cooking. My mom is sweet and is as appreciative to be here for another Christmas as we are to have her. But last night when I was setting up my Christmas tree that I bought down for her and I wasn't doing things freakin' exactly like she would do it, she told me that I had the patience of a rattlesnake. I told her to zip it…or I’d make her sleep in her wheelchair. Kidding.

Onward. Smokin’ one of those little baby cigars from my new cigar box Christmas ornament.

And rattlin'.

ADG-Two

  

Christmas Morning ’66: Stony vs. Joe

I’ve written about how absolutely riveting it was when the Sears Catalogue…the Christmas Book…arrived at our house. My sister and I would fight like cats and dogs over it ‘til my mom would remind us that “Santa Claus is watching you.” Never during the years that I believed in the fat man was anything more effective at getting my a_s to settle down.

I'm sitting this morning...Christmas morning 2012, propped against the headboard of my twin bed, in the same bedroom and twin bed that hosted me from my fourth year of life till I split for college. The Wild West light cover on the ceiling is the same one that I stared up at during all those years…but a separate story manifests there and I’ll write it later this week while I’m home and inspired. But for now, let’s talk Stony and Joe.

Like every boy in my neighborhood during the mid to late sixties and into the early seventies, I vacillated between make believe games of mostly playing army or Wild West. I think I mentioned in my story about childhood toys that by 1970-ish as Vietnam was in full-swing, some of my best memories are of my mom taking me to Mangum’s Army-Navy Store on Dargan street and allowing me, with maybe five to ten bucks that I’d saved, to buy army surplus stuff for next to nothing. Ten bucks went a long way when you were buying helmet liners, ammo belts, ponchos, trenching tools and the like for a buck fifty to three bucks per go. Nirvana.

Maybe today’s kids will be able to recollect thirty-plus years from now the same level of absolute endorphin flush and giddy excitement about their activities. Certainly they’ll relish memories of emoticon peppered texting, right? As opposed to my 1968 Walkie-Talkie set that during the twenty minutes when the batteries actually worked; you could hide in the azalea bushes and bark out army orders cryptically and statically to your best buddy. But only if he was within two feet of your azalea camouflaged lair. Nirvana again…till one of the azalea frequenting bumble bees stung the dooky out of you for setting up your command post in their neck of the woods or your mama caught you in her prized azaleas.

I’m sure that kids today will as adults, share equally joyous memories of sitting inside all-day affixed to the toggles of a game console or the absolute majesty of an X-Box whatever. But something tells me that the mud and grime encrusted army surplus trenching tool I bought with my allowance offered me and my imagination, something that kids today can’t and don’t care to fathom. I also suspect that we burned a few more calories. Ok, this started out as an effort to share my Stony vs. GI Joe memory and I’ve now manifested a five hundred and sixty seven word digression. Sorry. Shut up.

So Christmas morning 1966-ish saw me in awe of Santa’s ability to know exactly what I wanted, even after I changed my mind a hundred times. And mostly I wanted Army stuff. I can’t remember the circumstances around my desire for the action figure, Stony but I can assure you that once I saw him and his collateral kit propped up on the sofa, the rest of my loot was irrelevant.

I’d been playing with little plastic army men for the previous few years since I’d gotten old enough to quell my mom’s worry that I’d eat ‘em. But this Stony figure took the whole playing army thang to another level. Even though he was in one sense, just a bigger version of a plastic army man—his fatigues with bulging pockets were nothing more than an extruded plastic version of my little green plastic troops—but he was cooler. Mainly because he was bigger but also because he was mildly articulated—you could bend his arms at the elbows. That’s where his pose-ability ended but to me it was a pretty cool little option as opposed to my variously posed, frozen in time and action, little plastic army men.

And the icing on my Stony cake was all the gear that came with him. Various headwear and weaponry and a couple of other little gadgets—all made from the same extruded green plastic that Stony—with the exception of his slightly more detailed head and hands—had been created.

The climate on Christmas mornings in Florence, South Carolina is generally mild so I was ready to hit the back yard and create the perfect environment for Stony to manifest, courtesy of my imagination, his combat-esque damn self. There was Miller’s ditch or the crawl space under our house that had already served as the trench warfare setting for my little plastic army men and those were just two immediate options that came to mind. A couple of phone calls…maybe to S.S., R.R., M.W. or J.F. and if they’d gotten a Stony too, Lord only knows that we’d have contrived by lunchtime. But alas, it was not to be.

“Don’t get dirty and as a matter of fact, don’t go outside. We are headed to Charlotte as soon as I get you and your sister fed.” Perhaps in other circumstances, this admonishment/logistics update from my mom would have devastated a little boy amidst his new toys on Christmas morning. But I was cool with it. Charlotte was Charlotte, North Carolina and that meant we were headed to visit one of my mom’s six sisters for a few days. And her son, my two-years-older cousin Gary, was my idol. When you aren't too many years out of training pants, two years difference in age is an eternity. But my cool cousin Gary was nice to me and played with me and always had different toys and did stuff that was just mildly more advanced than what I was used to doing and I loved all that and him.

The Steele Creek and Shopton Road area of Charlotte back then was really rural and my Aunt Eula and Uncle Frank weren't part of the Myers Park crowd. They lived out in the country. I understand now that like a lot of Charlotte, their neck of the woods has long since been paved over amidst Charlotte’s quest to strip any semblance of its former self from today’s strata. But when I was a kid, my visits to cousin Gary’s house was full-on rural fun. There were still a few small working farms around and we’d sneak over to this big hay barn and crawl through tunnels that Gary and his friends had made by shimmying bales out of the stacks in strategic places. Of course it was a death trap. And it was other worldly exciting. Mainly because I was temporary wing-man to my cousin Gary and because it was, literally at a hundred and ten-ish miles from my house, another world.

Gary always had cooler army surplus stuff than I did and he was the inspiration for me going back home one time and painting army medic white circles on my surplus helmet liner helmet. My older sister, in a rare moment when she didn’t want to kill me, then painted with our mom’s fingernail polish, the red crosses within the circles. I’d a mimicked any and everything that Gary did. He was my idol. (For those of you who don’t understand “helmet liner helmet” let me explain. WWII and Vietnam era army helmets were made of heavy steel. Underneath the steel helmet was a removable particle fibered liner with canvas mesh webbing on the inside that was the actual contact point for your head. When removed from the steel helmet, the liner looked identical to the helmet including the dark olive drab color and it weighed a fraction of the actual helmet. We would buy the helmet liners for two dollars at the Army-Navy store and bam! We were in helmet business.)

Predictably, my mom told me and my sister to pick one thing from Santa stuff that we’d like to take with us to Aunt Eula and Uncle Frank’s. I of course, took Stony and his gear. The two and a half hour trip to Charlotte I’m thinking, was probably devoid of our usual brother-sister fighting in the back of my mom’s Vista Cruiser station wagon for I’m sure that Stony and I were war gaming it all the way there. And who gives a sh_t what my sister was doing? I mean, really. But if she was playing Barbie, surely that hot little number from Mattel woulda been checking Stony’s junk.

So we roll in on my aunt’s house and after the typical hugs and kisses—my people are huggers and kissers—I made a beeline for my cousin Gary’s bedroom and what would be a palpable, sugar-to-shit moment. Sugar-to-shit? You bet. Probably my first. You see, I was about to experience the same rapid plunge into a flat-affect reality that I was to feel years later when pulling up in my MG Midget and seeing for the first time, a Triumph GT-6.

 All the cool things about my MG became bland and boxy and uninspiring compared to the cool lines of the Triumph. I'd learn within an hour or so that my dad was gonna offer me the GT-6 but until then, I felt kinda...jealous.

It happened again years later in New Orleans as I was driving down Metairie Road one afternoon with the top down on my then weekend car; a perfectly sublime for its moment, sans everything but well edited basics, Mazda Miata.

The all new BMW Z-3 passed by me and from that moment on, my Miata was a Janis Ian, At Seventeen, ugly duckling, surely not to be selected “when choosing sides for basketball.” And I’m not proud to report, but I must do so for karmic reasons, the fact that in my much earlier dating years, the sugar-to-shit thing happened with women—a lot.

I couldn’t get Stony out of the box fast enough to show Gary what Santa had so presciently awarded me. Then Gary showed me his fresh off the Sleigh, action figure…his fighting man. And he extricated it from a footlocker that was cooler than the Marx company cardboard container that my Stony came in. And what was with the tray on top with all the cool gear?

I didn’t puke and I didn’t cry but I wanted to. In tandem. I was raised better than that and anyway, my mama woulda surely beat me for jealously crying over someone else’s Santa loot. And my people aren’t pukers. But how? How could Jesus on his birthday in concert with the fat man from the North Pole, do this to me? What the f*#%k was a G.I. Joe and how did I miss this incredible thing since it had been out for about a year and a half already? How did I  not lock in on GI Joe when memorizing the Sears Christmas catalogue? None of my buddies had one and for reasons inexplicable to this day, I’d been unaware of GI Joe. Come on. You have to see the difference...the absurdly obvious dichotomy between my Stony and Gary's GI Joe. Yep, this was the first of my many sugar-to-shit moments.

Stony with his now laughable degree of elbows-only articulation and his hideously molded into his…his damn self…uniform; standing stiltedly beside this incredibly kitted out and downright contortionally moveable—situate-able G.I. Joe, just looked—impertinent. But Gary didn’t notice my suicidal dismay or at least he didn’t seize upon it and gloat, even if he did sense my anguish.

I was precocious back then but I wasn’t a spoiled brat.  My disgust with Stony and my absolute holy-shit awe of GI Joe wasn’t grounded in just simple infantile jealousy. It was fact based. GI Joe was hand-sewn-real-uniforms and cool-as-shit-accessories-genius to Stony’s suddenly green-plastic-for every-damn-thing-but-head-and-hands-stiltedness. I kid you not; the remainder of our two-day visit is erased from my mind. I only remember the defining moment when Gary and I proudly compared our fighting men and Stony fell from grace at warp speed.

Indulge me please for some additional evidence to support my position that Stony on his best day had no bank, no game, no nothing compared to GI Joe. The Hassenfeld family of Pawtucket bet the bank, literally on the launch of GI Joe and once they committed to him, they were all-in. “A doll for boys?” was a huge concern during the early moments of GI Joe’s ideation. “Action Figure” was soon the standard jargon and it stuck…problem solved. 

And Don Levine, the Hasbro guy most credited with creating the final commercial product, got the inspiration for GI Joe’s incredible articulation courtesy of seeing an artist’s wooden model in a hobby shop store window.

Granted, Joe is an odd looking chap in the buff but it’s the only way for you non-GI Joe-ers to fully appreciate my… Why Stony was a dud: Exhibit-A.  GI Joe not only bent...he twisted—in virtually every direction. There wasn’t much of a position that you couldn’t get the chap in and prepare him for whatever martial endeavor you desired.

GI Joe…crouched unaware in a foxhole. About to be the recipient of a Black Cat firecracker or an M-80 scud bought by somebody’s daddy at the fireworks stand from South of the Border? No problem. Yet what could Stony do if caught in the same situation? Crouch? Nope. Crawl? Nah. Stand there stoically? Yep.

GI Joe…crouched on a mound of dirt, Carbine in one hand, grenade in another, pondering his next GI Joe move? Got it. I bet there ain’t a Twister-esque move requested in the Kama Sutra the old Joe couldn’t accommodate. Come to think of it, seems like I recall a naked GI Joe and one of my sister’s buff Barbies getting’ jiggy in Joe’s camo sleeping bag one time. Seems like I also recall a huge a_s whipping as a result. 

Oh, and GI Joe had a scar on his face. Man oh man...he'd seen hand-to-hand combat with a Kraut or a raucous night with Roxanne Burgess and his cheek badge showed it. Kinda made Stony's blankly monochromatic face look...blank-er. 

The best Stony could do...who now by the way, looked to me like he was in a body cast, was just freaking stand there. Or lie face-down or up in a foxhole, appearing to be catatonic or rigor mortis-ed. Oh, but he could move those damned elbows…up or down. Here, have a hat. And I'll toot the bugle. Nice.

Exhibit B…as if another one was needed—GI Joe’s accessories. Good god, man! The stuff was accurate and to-scale and made of different tensiles of plastic with various colors and textures.

And the uniforms? Cloth…I mean what else should a uniform be made of? Were they a bitch to get on and off? You bet. No pain. No gain.

“But Stony had accessories?” Yep. He sure did. Think Tupperware. Butcept monochromatic olive green. And in comparatively scant quantity and imagination. Suddenly Stony's gear was some of the clunkiest, ham-fisted stuff  I'd ever seen. Nice.

Let me wrap up this Christmas tragedy with the proverbial rest of the story. I knew better than to wail and complain about my, till laying eyes on GI Joe, best gift ever, Stony. But I reckon I didn’t have to. I think my perceptive mother sussed out the situation rather quickly and my birthday was only three weeks away. All’s well that ends well and my birthday was made sublime by the arrival of what would be the first of my many GI Joes.

I’ve said before that of all the toys I had growing up, GI Joe and the collateral stuff that accompanied him, was my hands down bar none favorite. I’d say that there was probably a four year stretch when all I wanted was “GI Joe stuff” for every gift receiving occasion. I still have a few Hot Wheels and Matchbox cars from my childhood but that’s about it. All of my Joe junk is gone. When you have a brother who comes along almost ten years later, chances are that your cache of GI Joe stuff in the attic will go to him. And there’s an equal chance that he will destroy all of it and your mother will then throw it away. It happened to me.

Years later…many years later…after constantly and playfully giving my brother shit about destroying my GI Joe stuff, my office phone in New Jersey rings and my now twenty something year old brother tells me that he has the Christmas gift that’s gonna knock my socks off. And that’s all he was willing to allow. Keep in mind, by the time I’m in my early thirties, there isn’t much that anyone in my family can afford to  gift me that’s sock knocking off caliber. So I’m clueless. Till I get home on Christmas Eve and open the gift from my brother. Ebullient is an understatement.

I rarely shine like this anymore. And if this photo had audio, you'd hear about a dozen people laughing and regaling with me. I think I burned a zillion calories laughing and redundantly saying "oh man!" and hugging and kissing my little brother for giving me these talismans of what to this day; I define as an idyllic, safe, playful and imaginative childhood. And my mother and sister were equally amused. There’s no disagreement or ambiguity in my clan regarding just how robustly and in-full I lived my early years.

Courtesy of www.shorpy.com/node/3723

So Merry Christmas. Literally this morning, from my childhood bedroom where many years ago, I billeted GI Joe and his cohorts after court-martialling Stony for inarticulate, monochromatically extruded plastic-esque conduct. Unbecoming.

Onward. Pee Dee Style.

ADG II

Trad Randomanalia--Reader's Questions

I have a pile of questions from folks over at my tumblr and being the long winded guy that I am I've decided to gather up a bunch of 'em and posit some responses here...

aduckgetsdressed asked:

“When did you get your first toy soldier?”

Ducksterini...I was a kid of the 1960's and '70's and essentially ALL of the lead-hand painted makers had given up on their version of to soldier b 1966. The heady era of painted-lead soldiers was the mid 1800's till the late 1950's. After that, bags of literally a hundred plastic toy soldiers could be bought for the price of ten lead ones. And by the '60's there was concern about lead poisoning. I had tons of plastic ones growing up. But then about 30 years ago my uncle gave me 6 old lead ones and that whetted my interest in them. I collected maybe 30-40 more and then put that collecting effort aside as I bought more art and caricatures. After my divorce, I unpacked the old box of lead toy soldiers and the collecting bug came back with a vengeance.

preppybythegraceofgod asked:

“Ok, what's the secret to your successful greening? Also, you have anymore paisley shorts or pants like you sent my cohort in style, Carolinastyle. Thanks, cheers, F.T.H.”

Green shoe polish. And yes, I've probably got another pile of duds that you boys would like to have.

Anonymous asked:

“I have to laugh. So many blogs have popped up recently that are unquestionably in imitation of yours. In some cases its the tone, in other it's the writing or the photos or the themes. You probably won't admit it, but I can and I have no horse in this race. You should be flattered by the imitation. And by the way, you still surpass them all in terms of style, creativity, vision, artistry, pathos ... You are a character!”

That's very kind of you to say. I wish that I had more time to write stories these days but I just don't. 

cosmosdream asked:

“Hey ADG, I'm a young guy who enjoys following your blog, and now the Tumblr. You wear a lot of cotton suits. They look great. Do you recommend buying them fully canvassed? I ask because I hear that cotton suits don't last so long. Maybe that's wrong? Sorry if this is obvious canon. BTW, I buy my suits custom made in Hong Kong, so finding the cotton suit in question isn't an issue.”

My greatest indulgence was having the Flusser boys make me a seersucker suit. Common wisdom, which the record shows that I possess none of, would tell us not to spend the big bucks on fully canvassed bespoke goods that are so seasonable and so perishable. But if you are getting them in Hong Kong, you are probably getting them for palatable prices so why not swing for the fences?

Anonymous asked:

“Do you have a go-to company for your chinos?”

Not really. I buy 'em on the cheap from Polo and J. Crew mostly. But I'm thinking about giving Bill's a try again. 

traddom asked:

“OK ADG, what's more classical and versatile for spring/summer, blue seersucker or pincord suit and why? Gracias, dollahs in the mail. PAB”

I haven't thought about pincord in ages. I do have a pair of pincord trousers but I'd vote for seersucker. It's just a personal preference I suppose.

Anonymous asked:

“How about some commentary / posting on lapel width and proportion? I just got a good look at 007 in the famous glen plaid 3 piece suit from Goldfinger and was shocked at how skimpy his lapels are. These days, I figure the go/ no go limit is probably at 50% on the Lapel-O-Meter, but your pal Ralph will frequently shoot up to 75 or more. What say you?”

Lapel width is something I've not paid too much attention to when it comes to my clothes. Since most of them are MTM/bespoke, I leave it to the elves to decide what the proportions should be. I was aware of Flusser's modest update and tweak to their house model about five years ago and was pleased with the slightly streamlined result. I do recall having a Polo DB suit about twenty years ago with lapels so wide that Mark "Puerto" Rykken referred to them as "dorsal fins."

"Was there ever a time when you first went from Off The Rack to something more and suddenly you had One Really Cool Garment and a whole lot of also-rans? Did you cull quickly and mercilessly or did you just work towards spreading the luxe around, like dressing on a salad? Or have you never had to suffer with the ordinary?"

First, I've never really deemed my closet as containing any "also rans." The off the rack stuff that I've held on to or bout at Bobby from Boston or whatever...has always been a complementary part of my sartorial lineup or it ends up out the door... eBay or to a couple of devotees who read my blog and wear the same size clothes that I do. Regarding culling quickly and mercilessly...It took me years to learn this skill. I used to hang on to stuff that I hadn't worn in years just because "this is Purple Label, I can't get rid of it..." I've now learned to let stuff go a bit more readily. And finally, my negative net worth tells me that not only should I have suffered the ordinary longer than I ever did, I should be doing more of it currently.

A question on Western--Top Pockets...

Eaztu (unregistered) wrote:

"What's your opinion of trousers with pockets cut like the one above? I've always preferred pockets cut vertically that are a continuation of the side seam. Even the slightest diagonal seems to emphasize one's width - probably not something you need to thing about."

Well first, yes, I'm blessed with having a build that I reckon is a bit more complementary to wearing these things. On the other hand, they still manifest the same puckering whateverishness on me and everyone else who wears them. Even Columnist and sartorial know it all, my favorite wordsmith...George Frazier.

I'd waive anyone off from making buying western/top pockets if you are uber retentitive about lines and symmetry and such. Because regardless of one's build, they are gonna be problematic. 

As one who's always in search of things a bit askew, they suit me.

"Hello, Can you tell me the origin of "GTH" and patchwork. I have heard a few versions and would like to know the real story. Joe"

I'm not sure. But the general conscenus I hear from those in the know, generally attribute much of the Trady-Ivy jauntiness to Chipp, the venerable Gotham store that I undortunately, never set foot in. But the story goes that Sid Winston and his boys were always contriving jaunty assembleages of madras and patchwork stuff and colorful, woldly patterned linings and risque and humorous neckwear.

And I suppose the best evidence of Chipp's  propensity for whimsical, GTH items was their infamous jockstrap.

And of course, my Rinpoche, Mr. Flusser, courtesy of John Tinseth from The Trad and Rose Callahan  posits on GTH trousers here. And I quote the quote.."The stylish button-downers would engage in a form of sartorial one-upmanship that brought wild dollops of golf course color or tartan-inspired outrageousness into classic ensembles that made insiders smile while others winced." --Alan Flusser from Style and the Man

Ok. That's enough for now. Gotta go loofah my stretch marks. 

80G2